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How Much Does a Funeral Cost in Oklahoma?

Last reviewed: March 2026

Key takeaways

  • A traditional funeral with burial in Oklahoma averages about $7,500 for funeral home charges, below the national median.
  • Direct cremation averages around $1,000 to $3,000. Oklahoma legalized aquamation (water cremation) effective November 1, 2025.
  • Cremation requires a permit from the Office of the Chief Medical Examiner before proceeding.
  • Embalming is not legally required in Oklahoma.

How much does a funeral cost in Oklahoma?

A traditional funeral with viewing and burial in Oklahoma averages approximately $7,500 for funeral home charges, below the national median of $8,300. With cemetery costs, the total typically reaches $9,000 to $12,000.

Costs vary by location:

  • Oklahoma City and Tulsa. Metro areas tend to have costs closer to the state average, with full-service burials reaching $10,000 to $14,000 including cemetery fees.
  • Rural and smaller communities. Often 10 to 20% below the metro average.

How much does cremation cost in Oklahoma?

Oklahoma's cremation rate is approximately 52%, slightly below the national average of 63%.

  • Direct cremation. Averages about $1,000 to $3,000 statewide.
  • Cremation with memorial service. Typically $3,000 to $6,000.
  • Full-service cremation. Can reach $6,000 to $8,000 with viewing and a traditional service.
  • Aquamation (water cremation). Typically $1,295 to $3,995+, roughly $1,000 more than flame cremation. Legal as of November 1, 2025.

What regulations apply in Oklahoma?

Oklahoma funeral services are governed by the Funeral Services Licensing Act and overseen by the Oklahoma Funeral Board:

  • Chief Medical Examiner permit required. A permit for disposition from the Office of the Chief Medical Examiner (OCME) is required before cremation can proceed. This process can sometimes cause delays.
  • No embalming requirement. Embalming is not legally mandated, though many funeral homes require it for viewings. Common carriers like airlines may require embalming for shipping remains.
  • Aquamation legalized (November 2025). Alkaline hydrolysis (water cremation) is now legally recognized and must be conducted in a licensed crematory.
  • Cremated remains shipping. If cremated remains need to be shipped, they must go through the U.S. Postal Service via registered mail with a return receipt. Commercial carriers do not accept cremated remains.
  • Scattering ashes. Permitted on private property with the owner's consent. No specific state statutes restrict the removal of cremated remains from Oklahoma.

Ways to reduce funeral costs in Oklahoma

  • Choose direct cremation. At $1,000 to $3,000, direct cremation is the most affordable option. Hold a memorial service separately.
  • Compare prices across providers. Funeral home pricing can vary significantly even within the same city.
  • Buy a casket separately. Oklahoma funeral homes must accept caskets purchased elsewhere.
  • Use Fort Sill National Cemetery. Eligible veterans receive free burial at one of Oklahoma's VA or state veterans cemeteries.
  • Skip embalming. Not required by law. If you are not having a viewing, ask the funeral home about alternatives.
  • Consider aquamation. Now legal in Oklahoma, water cremation provides an environmentally friendly alternative at a comparable price point.

What makes Oklahoma different?

Chief Medical Examiner clearance. Oklahoma requires a permit from the OCME before cremation, which can add processing time. Plan accordingly if choosing cremation.

Aquamation now legal. As of November 2025, Oklahoma recognizes water cremation, expanding options for families interested in environmentally friendly alternatives.

Below-average costs. Oklahoma funeral costs are below the national median, making it a relatively affordable state for traditional burial or cremation.

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